Sunday, September 30, 2012

Photos Of Our Life

Family trekking -our favorite thing to do when Ryan is not working

Terraced Rice Fields-trekking

Swimming

Tansen Mission Play Group! These children are from Korea, Norway, USA, Sweeden and Nepal. Once a week we get together, read a story from the bible, sing songs and play. 

Meena makes us bread once a week. So tasty!

Fresh Veggies Every Day

Meena loves giving Win a bath

Taco night! We had some friends over for Dinner and I really wanted to make tacos. I made everything from scratch; salsa, tortillas, and chips! In this photo I am cutting the tortillas into triangles. I placed them in the oven, sprinkled oil and salt. Voila!! Chips!! (note-that tiny little box in the corner is my oven. I call it my easy bake!)

My friend Sita, her husband BJ and their son, Arpan. Sita is the play therapist at the hospital. We work together. 

Daily breakfast. Most mornings I make banana pancakes, eggs and coffee. YUM!

Monday, September 17, 2012



This week God has led me to a sad situation.  A woman who is in her late 20's came to the hospital with her 10 month old son.  This woman is mentally ill and has been in and out of the hospital for the past 2.5 years.  She has no family.  She had the baby with a married man and he wants nothing to do with her or the baby.  Her family does not understand mental illness so she has been beaten and not taken care of.  It is difficult for her to take care of her child.  Some days she wants the baby and other days she doesnt. When she is unwell she has talked of throwing her baby out the window or cutting off his ears.  Thankfully, the baby appears to be healthy.

In Nepal there is no such thing as child protection. The police are aware of her situation but there is really nothing one can do. You can't just take someone's child away.  There is no public social safety net to help this mother or her baby.

The mission hospital has been wonderful and they have been helping her care for the baby. I am trying to figure out how I can help this baby and mother.  I would like to be involved in caring; however, what happens when we leave in December? The baby gets attached to me and then I leave?  This is such a hard situation.  A few times now I brought the baby to my house to give him a bath and I gave him a few of Winslow's clothes.  He also took a long nap on my chest, which was nice.  I'm sure he felt calm and relaxed after a warm bath and fresh clothing.

Today I went to check on the mother and baby.  They have been discharged, but the hospital is allowing them to stay in a small room behind the hospital.  This is a block of rooms where leprosy patients used to stay.  Once I found where this woman is living I couldn't believe my eyes. The room (her home) was tiny! It has a single bed and small stove top with a few pots and pans.  Both mother and baby were sleeping on a mattress with no blanket.  Difficult living circumstances.   I went out and bought some baby soap, baby clothes and diapers. I showed the helper how to bath the baby in a basin and how to use the diapers. I also brought a few toys.  A staff member's niece will be helping with the baby during this week (hopefully longer).  The hospital is seeking to find a donor to pay for someone to continue watching the baby.  The cost- $2.50 per day.  May not seem like much to you and I, but it is a lot for people in Nepal.
Living quarters 
Before a bath.

All fresh and sleepy after a warm bath.


I feel heartbroken today.  I don't know what to do. This is probably the saddest thing I have ever seen.
I went to speak with pastoral care services to find out what can be done.   For the past year they have been trying to create a home for people with mental illness. This woman is an outcast of her community just like the lepers who dwelled in her room previously.  "There came a leper to him" Mark 1:40.  Jesus welcomed the outcasts when others wouldn't.  This home will be located just outside the hospital to welcome the outcasts.  They would provide these people with a small job, vocational training if feasible, spiritual support, a nurse, food, clothing, water, etc.  Funding has been an obstacle.  The pastoral care team has put together a thorough and efficient proposal.  The goal as of now is to find funding for one year.  The budget for everything would be roughly $10,000.  This includes the building, rooms for 6-8 people, food, clothing, bedding, kitchen supplies/appliances, telephone, rent, nursing care and an administrator. Sometimes the greatest pain of illness (particularly mental illness) is rejection and abandonment by family and friends.  This Christian home would be a safe community for mentally ill people.

Donation directions. It would be easiest to go through the hospital website.
 www.tansenhospital.org
On the left click "supporting UMHT"
On the left click "donations-financial and equipment"
On the bottom of the page "Giving financially-US residents"
There are a few methods for donations.
Please email Tansen.umn.org.np stating that this money is for pastoral care services. "New Life Rehab Center"
You can also email me to make sure everything went through. Andrea.kane3@gmail.com

Thank you so much for your time.

If you or someone you know what like to donate please contact me via Facebook or at andrea.kane3@gmail.com.  Every penny counts.  

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

We have been away for about a month now. In some ways it feels as though the time flew by and others ways it feels like we have been here for a long time.

We seem to be adjusting more every day. I have been working at the hospital 3 days a week for 2 hrs at a time. This week I will be starting to work at the children's library on Thursdays from 4-5pm. My job is to teach the children from town English. They are younger/school age so we will be doing fun activities.  I went to check things out yesterday and I was showered with an assortment of beautiful flowers that the children had picked for me. I think they are excited to have a new teacher. ;)

So far, I have really enjoyed my time at the hospital.  Its much different than the hospitals at home.  I work in the pediatric ward. There are 60 beds. About 7 beds to a room, some beds are even in the hallway.  Their only entertainment is each other and the 1 toy that they get for the day. That's my job. I do toy rounds! Its really quite fun.  I go around with a cart full of toys. Each child chooses which toy they would like for the day.  I am very impressed with the toy selection they have. Most all the toys have been donations but they really have an impressive amount to choose from. They also have a play room, which I work in 1 day a week. We do art projects, play board games, there are a few trikes for the kids to ride on and lots of toys. Things can get a little chaotic in the play room but its fun.

My favorite thing about people from Nepal is how kind they are. I have been to other parts of the world and people can act greedy (in an "every man for themselves") kind of way. When I walk into the room with my cart of toys. The parents and children sit and wait patiently for their turn to choose. And they are SO appreciative.

There seem to be all kinds of reasons for hospitalization. The majority of the kids come in through trauma. Arm fractures (from climbing trees/hills), and lots of burns.  The burns usually come from falling into a pot of boiling food, milk, water.  Its the absolutely saddest thing I have EVER seen.

I had my first Child Life intervention yesterday. An 8 year old boy came in after bumping into his mother who was holding a pot of boiling milk. The milk poured down his chest, causing 3rd degree burns.  So yesterday I was doing my toys rounds and I heard this boy screaming and crying. It was a painful cry.  I went to see what was going on. This 8 yr old boy was sitting, naked on a little stool in the bathroom while his mother and aunt were gently pouring water on the dressing which covered his chest. They were trying to peel off this dressing to air out the burn and put more medication on it.  I can honestly say it looked excruciating. Immediately, tears welled up into my eyes. I wanted to stop it and take the pain way. I said a quick prayer to myself, croutched down at his level and starting singing "twinkle little star". His crying dyed down and he looked at me. I then asked the Mom to stop and wait for 5 minutes. I then ran as fast as I could back to my house (which was all uphill). I grabbed my "go to" child life distraction tools; my light up wand, bubbles, and squish ball. I ran back down to the hospital where they were waiting.  I gave him the squish ball and we alternated between the light up wand and blowing bubbles (blowing bubbles are helpful for people in distress because it helps them to take deep breaths).  I sang every song I could think of for about 50 minutes. Then finally the last of the bandage came off.  I could tell that we all felt the relief.

This intervention went well but it was hard for me because I spent the rest of the day reflecting on how it could have gone different/better. Why was the mother taking off the bandage and not a nurse? Where were the pain meds?? Why was water the only substance to help pull back the gauze? Why wasnt a coping plan in place?? I have a lot to learn about the hospital and I want to be respectful and not try and run in and change things right away. This can be a challenge.

Winslow continues to be a show stopper around Tansen. People know his name wherever we go. Last week we walked into church a a group of ladies, whom I had never met yelled out "Win!" Needless to say, Winslow is not lacking any attention. ;)

Photos!!!
Ryan, Win and I went for a 5 hour hike last weekend! Incredible views. We hiked along the mountain side and then down, into the valley. We ended at a delicious restaurant called Rose Resort. We sat in a garden. There were 50 different kinds of roses! 

Taking a little snack break on our way down the mountain. 

My Sound of Music pose. ;)

Win loves to carry a stick when we hike. He holds tight even while he sleeps. 

Terraced fields of rice!